sometimes i always get a little confuse about the way some people do to remind others. here i’m talking about a form of judgment, a judgment over the way others take to live. they complain about the way of living others choose. they judge without knowing particular reason behind others’ choices. i don’t know why they judge? maybe to make something better or whatever. but, here i give a real example, time ago, there lived a boy, that boy was on the false track, the boy should have been searching for himself, but in his friends’ eyes, his way was totally wrong and too out of control, since that, his friends always talked behind the boy, talked all his badness, then make a judgment over the boy. of course the boy was feeling isolated, not only that, the boy felt that his friends were all covered by fakes, he knew that they were no better than him (that’s what usually labile human feel when they are in that situation). the boy once thought that being with those people would make him feel loved (in psychology, it’s true that every human being always searching for love and how to love, one kind of the efforts is to make friendship). so, the boy got what so called totally disappointed, then he chose to leave, went to the real wild life with new friends (the word “wild” i mention here is the truest meaning of “wild”).

well, sometimes judgment is not right way to remind others. isn’t it better to stay close and give attention to people you think they are in false track? isn’t it better if we just stay with them, give them love and make them feel comfortable? so it can be concluded that the best form of reminding others is praying, judging doesn’t make any better, because we are not holly men, we are all fulled by sin. we are not always better than those we judge. and isn’t it worse if people we judge go to darkest way we never imagine before? haha. yeah, that’s just a perspective of fool like me, a fool who looks the world behind guy fawkes mask (naooon).