Sekarang lagi mood nulis pake basa inggris, biar rada gaya.

Get interested to analyze Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. Just found that many has argued the position of “self-actualizing” part of human needs to be put on the highest level in the pyramid of the hierarchy. See the picture below.

Self-actualizing itself describing the realization of human-being for their potential and their ”greed” for being more. This part is what other philosophers didn’t agree with. Some said that this hierarchy only suits specific society, especially those are who have high individualistic character.

Then, Viktor Frankl added “self-transcendence” onto the highest. “Self-transcendence” is not a new idea anyway, this had been exist both in islam and budha (and also for other religion) as a highest achievement of human internal needs. Self-transcendence itself, in my words, means the activation spiritual soul in human-being, where human can hear their sub conscious mind. 

So, honestly I can’t really describe how this is so important to acknowledge that Viktor really took it right. I also do not claim myself that I really got what self-transcendence is. But, sometimes I ask myself: have I been in the self-transcendence part? Oh, I think if I really have, I should have been a philosopher, ngok -_-“

sometimes i always get a little confuse about the way some people do to remind others. here i’m talking about a form of judgment, a judgment over the way others take to live. they complain about the way of living others choose. they judge without knowing particular reason behind others’ choices. i don’t know why they judge? maybe to make something better or whatever. but, here i give a real example, time ago, there lived a boy, that boy was on the false track, the boy should have been searching for himself, but in his friends’ eyes, his way was totally wrong and too out of control, since that, his friends always talked behind the boy, talked all his badness, then make a judgment over the boy. of course the boy was feeling isolated, not only that, the boy felt that his friends were all covered by fakes, he knew that they were no better than him (that’s what usually labile human feel when they are in that situation). the boy once thought that being with those people would make him feel loved (in psychology, it’s true that every human being always searching for love and how to love, one kind of the efforts is to make friendship). so, the boy got what so called totally disappointed, then he chose to leave, went to the real wild life with new friends (the word “wild” i mention here is the truest meaning of “wild”).

well, sometimes judgment is not right way to remind others. isn’t it better to stay close and give attention to people you think they are in false track? isn’t it better if we just stay with them, give them love and make them feel comfortable? so it can be concluded that the best form of reminding others is praying, judging doesn’t make any better, because we are not holly men, we are all fulled by sin. we are not always better than those we judge. and isn’t it worse if people we judge go to darkest way we never imagine before? haha. yeah, that’s just a perspective of fool like me, a fool who looks the world behind guy fawkes mask (naooon).

“How could you be that blind? he’s not good one treating you like that, he got another one behind. HOW CAN YOU BE THAT FOOL!?” i asked her after knowing the truth, “I don’t know. I’m just a human. I don’t know what i’m chasing. we both just have same pain and I’m just feeling like getting a new life, get what i lost before,” she answered. 

it was twelve in the midnight. lying under the ceiling. surrounded by city sound. dark conversation. people our age may not understand this complicated situation. she faced not unyu unyu kind of teenage story but dark thing.

i looked into her eyes, didn’t make any other judgement. enough for what i lately did to her. it might be my fault. well, she is mature enough to make decision, but still, i won’t let things go worse. always pray for her best. sorry for being too strict.

then, i can conclude that it is just an escape for both of you.

human are confusing, though.